Interesting read. I don’t agree with the idea itself. I think if she’s really just not in the mood then you are taking something beautiful and treating it like garbage. Now if she’s never in the mood you probably have bigger problems than sex, but half the fun is knowing for certain that she wants me.
“You said we shouldn’t feel guilty to have sex even if it’s grudgingly but how can you? I would probably just cry and try to sleep.” – This was a question I got this week from a young husband who has been married a few years and is now experiencing a lack of sexual desire from his wife. He also needed me to help clarify the differences between sexual refusal, sexual rain-checks and sexual desire.
As I started to respond to his email I thought it would be good if I included this for my readers.
Sexual Refusal
This is when a wife just comes out and says “NO!” or pushes your hands away. As I said in my post on “8 steps to confronting your wife’s sexual refusal” you as a husband should not tolerate refusal. If your wife says “NO” and slaps your hand away that is a…
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